
The spiritual teacher Ram Dass said that “love slowly transforms you into what the psychedelics only let you glimpse.” And this was in the context of how people get trapped within psychedelic experiences – that is, there is a tendency to want to remain in the euphoric, love-filled psychedelic state, but to actually transform as people, we need to take these glimpses of profound love and make that feeling a regular part of our everyday lives. Metta bhavana is the practice that will allow this to happen.
The formal practice of metta bhavana involves silently repeating four phrases in five stages. Each stage is meant to expand your capacity for loving-kindness. In the first stage of the meditation, you direct phrases of well-wishing towards yourself; then the next recipients of this emotion are as follows: a good friend or loved one, a neutral person (someone who you have no strong feelings about either way), a difficult person (someone who evokes negative feelings in yourself or who is a source of conflict), and all sentient beings (so all humans on the planet and all non-human animals who have subjective experiences and feelings).
There are common phrases used in metta bhavana that are intended to encapsulate the intention and feeling of loving-kindness. However, you can vary these phrases as you like. Typically, though, you repeat a set of four. Some examples of phrases include:
May I be filled with loving-kindness
May I be well
May I be safe and free from danger
May I be healthy
May I be free from suffering
May I be peaceful and at ease
May I be happy
In the second, third, and fourth stages of the meditation, you just swap the “I” out for “you”, and then in the fifth stage you swap out the “you” for “all beings”.
Emma Seppälä – science director of Stanford University’s Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education – wrote an article for Psychology Today on the research-backed benefits of loving-kindness meditation, which encompass different categories:
Improved well-being:
- Increases in positive emotions and decreases in negative emotions
- Increases in baseline vagal tone – a physiological marker of well-being
Healing:
- Decreases in migraines
- Decreases in chronic pain
- Decreases in PTSD symptoms
- Decreases in negative symptoms associated with schizophrenia-spectrum disorders
Improved emotional intelligence:
- The activation of empathy and emotional processing in the brain
- Increases in grey matter volume, which is related to emotion regulation
Improved stress response:
- Increases in respiratory sinus arrhythmia (RSA), an index of parasympathetic cardiac control (i.e. your ability to enter a relaxing and restorative state)
- The slowing down of biological ageing
Enhanced social connection:
- Increases in positive interpersonal attitudes and helping behaviour
- Increases in compassion
- Increases in empathy
- Decreases in your bias towards others
- Increases in social connection
More self-love:
- The curbing of self-criticism and depressive symptoms, and improvements in self-compassion and positive emotions

Furthermore, loving-kindness meditation is effective in small doses (practised in a single short session lasting 10 minutes) and it has a long-term positive impact.
Many of the above benefits can also be seen after psychedelic use, often during what is known as the ‘afterglow’: the days and weeks following a trip where you still feel heightened positive emotions. Nevertheless, the afterglow is a short-term experience. To maintain positive feelings, attitudes, perspectives, and beliefs, you will need to cultivate them – and this is the goal of metta bhavana.
Practising loving-kindness meditation in the days and weeks following a psychedelic experience will help to solidify these positive states of mind, especially since this is a period of enhanced neuroplasticity (when your brain has an increased ability to modify, change, and adapt both structure and function). This is why the afterglow period is also called a ‘critical period’, as this is when psychotherapeutic interventions can be especially effective. Likewise, any positive influence – including a metta bhavana practice – can be highly impactful during the afterglow period. Researchers have also found that positive emotions are correlated positively with the number of minutes spent doing the loving-kindness meditation, so this is worth keeping in mind too.
By spending 10-30 minutes a day practising metta meditation following a psychedelic trip, you will increase your chances of sustaining feelings of warmth and kindness towards yourself and others, whatever personal situations or types of interactions may arise. This is particularly important from a therapeutic point of view, as our relationship with ourselves and others matters in terms of preventing and minimising emotional distress.
Of course, if you keep up the practice before your experience, then it will be easier to continue with it after (since you’ll already be familiar with it and have it ingrained as a habit). Also, having this regular practice in place beforehand can set you up for a more positive psychedelic experience and allow you to better handle any challenging emotions (either during the experience or after).
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It is perfectly aligned with feelings triggered by entheogens. I will put efforts into it, thanks!
Ich habe es total unterschätzt, wie sehr das tatsächlich helfen kann. Das hat mein Leben positiv verändert. 🙂